Suggested reading:

[elionwyr]

Narcissism.

Gaslighting.

Triangulation.

Defamation of Character.

Internet Libel.

Internet Abuse.

Think of kindness as your Kevlar, and karma as your shield.

Comments

[softlywhispered.livejournal.com]

Preparing for something, sweet?

[glinda-w.livejournal.com]

Unscreened, I see... *quiet, evil grin*

[janusaries.livejournal.com]

Yes. OMG, yes. And multiple people with psych backgrounds can't figure it out. Or are too cowed to speak up.

Other reading material

[janusaries.livejournal.com]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Triangulation_(psychology)

The second paragraph in this article nails it.

And this is the largest (and most epiphany-producing) knowledge bases about narcissism on the Internet.

http://samvak.tripod.com/siteindex.html

Pay special attention to:
False Self
Sources of Narcissistic Supply
Pathological Narcisssistic Space

[softlywhispered.livejournal.com]

Oh don't forget to look into Gaslighting. I have a feeling this falls into some of what they're doing/have done as well.

Documentary on NPD

[janusaries.livejournal.com]

Part 2 of this documentary is extremely chilling.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=endscreen&NR=1&v=pXe9dn_SlE0

I was married to this for over 2 decades.

It's a wonder there is anything of me left.

[just-shai.livejournal.com]

Happy birthday!